Men's fear

When entering in a relationship, both genders will have their own considerations.....Women will think about if she will get marry with the person if she settled. Men will think about if he will lose all choices if he settled.

That's what my gf just told me. She is so fed up with her loose relationship. Waiting for calls, sms....but still couldn't confirm if it's relationship.

If men behaves like that, it means they still have their hesitations, no matter if they are compatible...blah blah blah. They will still go for it if he's into you so much. But the main reason is that he is not that into you. He doesn't love you enough to go for that. The feelings he feel for you is not make him brave enough to go into it. Relationship for men is another extra responsibility to them. The opportunity cost for this gamble is too high. So that's why.

She will enjoy her catch-and-chase game. But someday, when she tired, she will realise. But for sure I hope my friend could have her happy ending finally.